An iron kadhai really does put iron into your food
This is not folklore. Iron moves from the pan into the food, and it shows up in blood tests. Acidic, watery, long cooked things like tomato, tamarind and sambar pull the most.
What it is not: a treatment for anaemia. The size of the effect swings with how consistently the pot is used, and with infections like malaria and hookworm. Use the kadhai. Also get the blood test.
Source: systematic review, PubMed 34290890 and 31479458